Tips for Traveling in Germany (and maybe finding your purpose in life)

  1. Do it. Just go. You can worry later about how to pay for it. Life is short and the world is big. Get moving!
  2. Arrive with a few Euros in hand (you might have to pre-order from your bank, so don’t wait until the last minute unless you live in a big metro area). Then you can find ATMs in trains stations, airports, shopping areas, rest stops. I was thrilled to discover that we could withdraw Euros as needed at the current exchange rates and for the minimal fee of $1, which is cheaper than taking out money in my own home town!
    You could go insane studying the details of this currency. Holograms and on the bigger bills, see-through windows with holograms. Wow!

    You could go insane studying the details of this currency. Holograms and, on the bigger bills, see-through windows with holograms. Wow!

    Euros

  3. You can use your credit card in stores, but not in every restaurant. Have enough cash on hand for your meal. Ask up front if they take credit cards.
  4. Wear sturdy shoes. Cobblestones are not for wimps and you have a lot to see today.
  5. In many places and all rest stops, you have to pay to pee. I didn’t say life was fair, just interesting. Keep coins on you at all times and be grateful for the land of the free pee.
  6. If you’re not sure what something  on the menu is, order it. Except Weißwurst. That is a sausage made of calves brains, and that is just cruel.
  7. Even in small towns, just about everyone under 50 speaks English, but please ask first and be sure to thank them for the effort. You’re a guest; act like one.
  8. Take pictures. Lots of pictures. Study up on how to frame landscapes and portraits. YouTube has tons of info.
  9. The friends you make when you travel often end up being friends for life. Focus on what unites us. We have enough division, right?
  10. Tipping in restaurants: Round up to the next Euro or two, then add 10%. So if the bill is 27,90 Euros (Germans use commas where we have decimals, and vice versa), round up to 29 Euros, plus 10%. Then round up again, so 32 Euros. I’m a generous tipper, but I appreciated that all our servers spoke English to help my family, so I added a little more.
  11. VISA charged a 1% fee for every transaction, but I only used my card for bigger purchases (like 50 Euros or more).
  12. Trains are now often delayed in Germany, which was NOT the case 20 years ago. Know which platform the next one is leaving from in case you need to make a Plan B. Schedules are posted on every platform.
  13. If you can buy your train ticket ahead of time, you’ll save. Trains used to be cheap–not so now. We bought tickets last-minute in stations a couple times because we didn’t know if we could be on time for the cheap tickets, which are only good for the specific departure you chose. So flexibility costs more but is less stressful. See my “dare” approach to trip planning here.
  14. In big cities you can buy a day pass for all transit forms for up to 5 people. A bargain if you’re touring around, and it’s easy to switch between trains & buses.
  15. Don’t look for differences, look for commonalities. That’s how friends are made. Plus, we are all in this together. It’s later than you think.
  16. Hotels are expensive and most rooms only fit 2 people, which means you need multiple rooms for a family. Try Home Away for condos and homes. They are cheaper and you can cook and spread out, which is nice after a day of buses, street cars, trains, and crowds. Booking.com rocks for cheaper hotel rates.BRiefkasten
  17. Did I mention take lots of pictures? Don’t forget the small things, like flowers or beer glasses or shop windows. Because everyday life is more interesting than postcards.
  18. Stores close around 6 or 8 p.m. in Germany. Saturdays they often close at 2 p.m., especially in the smaller towns.
  19. If you see a train and want to get on it, go. If you see a castle and you want to explore it, go. If you see an amazing treasure that would make a cool souvenir, buy it. If you find an interesting person and want to talk to them, say hello. You may never pass this way again, remember? “No one steps in the same river twice,” Heraclitus said, and he was right.

 

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The Cumulative Power of Love

Lately I’ve been witness to an ungodly amount of suffering. People very close to me are suffering personal tragedies that just boggle the mind. Criminal cruelty of crazy people, cruelty of random cells morphing into disease. When you watch someone you love suffer, you can fall into a feeling of helplessness. You probably feel that way, too, if you read the news. You see people collapsing under the grief and it seems words can be so weak.

That is exactly the moment, I think, when you need to start channeling your strength and digging into the faith you have despite all odds. Whether it’s faith in God or the innate goodness of humankind, we need everyone of you to dig in. To believe in a miracle is an act of defiance. To demand justice is an act of defiance. To soldier on despite the crippling grief or blinding fear is an act of defiance. To accompany someone who suffers is an act of compassion AND an act of defiance. To stand up for them when they have no voice is a moral duty.

How you do it is not important. If sending up silent prayers is your gift, we need you on board. If doing research on justice and law is your gift, we need you. If writing letters or making phone calls to the powers that be is your gift, we need you. If marching is your gift, we need you. If being kind to everyone you meet is your gift, we need you. If putting some beauty out into a broken world is your gift, we need you. If we pool our gifts, we can turn things around.

Please lift each other up. Reach out to someone. Absorb someone’s tears and turn them into diamonds. Listen. Offer solace. Be present.

Shine a light on someone's dark street.

Shine a light. Join others. It works.

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Change Your Writing Space, See What Happens

Green oasis.

Green oasis.

Writers are creatures of habit. We have our favorite pen, brand of notebook, magic potion for sipping as we write. We like our ambiance…a crowded cafe or relative silence. Warm places or cool spaces, open windows or roaring fires. Sometimes we have to scribble wherever inspiration hits us, on napkins or the back of an envelope, in a business meeting or in the middle of a school play. Given a choice, though, we like to control the vibe.

But what if you tried a new space? If you’re in a slump, mix it up. It’s easy to try something new if you’re stuck or just can’t stop doing loads of laundry instead of working. If you find your mind wandering, take your body for a walk. A new view or a new soundtrack can do wonders. Background noises can trigger new sensory details or help you turn down the volume of your own mental chatter. Try a new spot and you might ask yourself, Why didn’t I try this before?

BECAUSE IT’S SCARY, your paranoid self might say. What if I get distracted? What if I find out I’m really lazy and a fraud and an immature 8 year old with a penchant for staring at bugs instead of doing my homework?

Well, any of that could happen. But what if something magical happens?

What if you work like crazy and everything is better than it has been for a long time? What if you find that a new atmosphere is not a distraction but an enhancement and you actually lighten the hell up and discover you can mix work with pleasure and feel pretty good about being a writer?

This practice is part of the Denver Writing Project‘s magic formula. The DWP is a chapter of the National Writing Project, an organization that combines the teaching of writing with the practice of writing. This month I participated in their one-week Advanced Institute. In 2015 I participated in their three-week Invitational Summer Institute. I cannot say enough about these great programs (shout out to Nicole Piasecki, who directed the DWP for several years and has inspired so many). If you want to catapult your teaching to the next level, and give yourself time and space to write to your heart’s content, find a NWP chapter near you.

Throughout the year, the DWP also hosts one-day “writing marathons” in various inspirational venues (museums, parks, etc.) and this summer we again visited the Denver Botanic Gardens. It was about 90 degrees by midday, but there’s plenty of shade and I found some sweet spots to hang out. I vaguely worried that I might be so excited to be there that I’d get nothing done. Not the case. I cranked out several pages, outlined several more scenes, and figured out bigger themes for a major project I’m working on. In between sprints I wandered a bit, took some photos, and praised the bees. Here  are some photos to inspire you to try something new. There’s a great big world out there waiting to knock some beauty loose in your head. Get out there and see what shakes loose!

Fabulous inspiration...writing about the flower pushcarts in Bordeaux, France.

Fabulous inspiration…writing about the flower pushcarts in Bordeaux, France.

I even saved a seat for you!

I even saved a seat for you!

Time for a break in Monet's Garden.

Time for a break in Monet’s Garden.

See the coleus. Be the coleus.

See the coleus. Be the coleus.

Pink poppy passion.

Pink poppy passion.

Chihuly, Denver Botanic Gardens

Chihuly sculpture, Denver Botanic Gardens.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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