Let Loose the Monkeys

Recently I had the privilege of working with a group of elementary students on writing poetry. To start us off, we watched a video that celebrates kids’ innate poetic abilities. If you don’t think we’re all born poets, watch this video of Naomi Shihab Nye reading a poem composed of things her son said when he was two and three years old: \”One Boy Told Me\” Or simply hang out with someone who’s just learning how to string sentences into paragraphs.

To allow grade school kids to tap into their creative instincts, it helps to give them permission to be a little kooky. Poetry can be serious, startling work, but it’s hard to get someone to fall in love with it if you start there. It sounds like a downer of a first date, if you ask me. Instead, I’ve been very impressed with the vivid imagery, sensory details, and fun rhythms in the poems chosen by that the teachers I’ve worked with . The kids respond with enthusiasm. And why wouldn’t they? They work so hard on spelling, math, and science that it’s got to be a nice break to have a penguin slip slide through the room, or watch a purple cow graze outside the window beside the plaid giraffe.

To get the students started, I gave them a few titles and ideas and told them if they could come up with better starters, then go for it. Let loose the monkeys! I encouraged them to not necessary follow logic, but to surprise and delight their readers with the unexpected. It takes some kids a while to make the shift from “the right answer” to the possible answer, but I expect to be very impressed with their efforts when I review their work later this week. Stick around and maybe we’ll share some poetry with you.

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A Kick in the Pants

What a ride I’ve been on! It’s been ages since I blogged. But no apologies for that. Here’s why.

After a long hiatus, many bloggers feel the need to come back groveling and guilty, and I’ve even read other bloggers advising on how to deal with a long break from your blog (never apologize, never let it happen in the first place, act like it never happened, etc. and contradicting etc.). To all them I say Why in the world would I ever apologize for having a real life? And God help the folks who need others’ advice on how to live that life. Sheesh.

Here’s what I’ve been up to: Some vacation, some writing and lots and lots of submitting to magazines. Oh that’s a fun sport. Almost as fun as busting my tailbone last month. (Sacrum, meet concrete. Concrete, meet sacrum. They did not get along, but they did hit it off, ha ha.) At least when you bust your tailbone, you can detect increased comfort in a month or two. But with poetry submissions, you usually hang in a silent limbo for three to six months, then get rejected. Are we having fun yet? It’s an occupational hazard, but at least I’m getting a wickedly funny poem out of the experience, which I will share in a future post.

I’d like to share one sliver of this second pain-in-the-butt experience (the poetry one). Yesterday I got a “no thanks” and the editor didn’t even spell my name right. Can I get a “dodged that bullet” whoop whoop? I especially liked the “good luck with that” closing on the email. I swear, who are these people? Poetry is an incredibly subjective matter, I get that, but a little respect for writers is a reasonable thing to expect from one who makes their living off of their hard work, wouldn’t ya think? Ok, I may be exaggerating “make their living” off of editing a poetry magazine. It’s probably pays about as well (nada) as writing poetry, in  many cases, but culture must be cultivated and we’re all in this same boat, so how about we paddle in the same direction at least?

Which leads me to this impassioned plea: Buy some poetry books this month. It’s National Poetry Month and Poetry has been working hard to make this nation one worth having. So ask not what poetry can do for you, but rather what you can do for poetry (hint: buy some!). Poetry books makes great gifts…no question that when you give someone a book of poems, you give a special, timeless gift they won’t forget. And no, dirty limericks don’t count. Try Mary Oliver or Robert Frost or Robert Haas or Marie Howe or Dorianne Laux or Ellen Bass or Tony Hoagland or David Shumate instead. If you’re lucky enough to have an indie bookstore that actually carries poetry (my hometown indie flat out told me “we don’t carry poetry, shelf space is too valuable”…I guess so they can sell more Kim Kardashian oeuvres?), then get a cup of joe and browse away. Otherwise, Amazon or Powell’s are great online venues for flipping through the virtual pages. I’m less interested in how you shop than in how you embrace a full and meaningful life, my friend. Happy hunting!

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Discovering Your Inner Writer: A Guide for the Young

A couple weeks ago I had the privilege of talking to some 200 middle- and senior-high-school students at their annual career day fair. I know, it sounds like a scream, doesn’t it? Actually, I really enjoyed it. Some of my favorite people are kids, and I was once one too, so I dug this opportunity to talk to them about the writing life.

As they wandered by, hesitant to make eye contact, I called out to them. Hey, are you a writer? Take my quiz and find out!  Some were very clear that writing was not their calling; luckily there were plenty of caring adults offering insight and opportunities in other areas, so I encouraged them to find their dream connection somewhere in the gym. But most of the kids came right over, curious. Some ran to me. Those are the ones I was there for! I handed them each a quiz I created to help them identify their talents, and they filled it out. Why don’t you take it right now by clicking here: Writer Quiz for Students

It’s a simple thing, but the point is creative young people need support. The writing life, by nature, is marked by solitude. That’s a good thing. But working in a bubble has its drawbacks. You need a sounding board some times. Not just for affirmation but to test the waters and see if you are connecting with readers as you intended. Plus, kids just need to be validated, no matter what their vocation or calling.

Think back a bit and I bet you can recall a mentor or neighbor, relative or teacher who encouraged you in your tender years. That was no accident, my friend. I think in the great web of life, we’re all here to lift up others as we journey ourselves. In my case, I will be starting a writing group at my local school to give these kids a place to explore their talent and get a little encouragement. I’ve been lucky to receive such support myself in the past, and now I can pay it forward a little bit. So who cheered you on in your youth? How do you—or people you know—support others now? Share your story in comments below and inspire others. And thanks for giving back!

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